Big Boobs, Blonde Hair and Tight abs.

I don't want/need male attention in the normal sense (for hook ups, make outs, etc). Want I do miss is being seen period. Lately, (not sure if its the weight thing or the fact that i love someone and people can sense that) I have had not as much as a look my way by anyone of the opposite sex. The more I go out and physically see how men treat women in club/bar and any other drinking occasions I see that men are looking for the hottest girls and that includes, being blonde, having big boobs, and/or having a tight ass and abs. Since I have none of the above should I be expecting no one to find me even interesting enough to talk to? I know for a fact that I am a generous, loving, interesting person. Obviously a great conversation is not what these guys are looking for, but why not? Aren't my qualities what is actually important in life? I would sooo much rather talk to an interesting fun and sweet guy who is ugly than listen to a hot cocky guy talk about boobs, blonde hair and abs or himself and how many girls he can get.
This is why I am tired of the Gainesville club scene.